Relationship break up Advice Blog: There are 50 ways to leave your lover – Including online…Part one
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As the old song goes “There are 50 ways to leave your lover”, and with the advancements in technology that list grows a little bit longer. Your lover can dump you by voicemail; your lover can dump you via text message and now your lover will dump or cheat on you via a multitude of social media sites.
Today, there is a new relationship world order which includes the social media age. In the past we’d contact friends and our relatives or see them face-to-face, at parties or at family gatherings.
However, our friends and our lovers’ photos, e-mails and comments are available to us 24 hours a day via Facebook – which creates a virtual but all too real new reality.
So, that guy or girl you got together with briefly or had a long-term relationship that didn’t work out will create a whole new thorny issue for you if you’re still connected via a social media site. As your relationship demise can be easily announced for the whole world to see via Twitter, Facebook or Bebo.
Let’s face it, who hasn’t logged into their computer to check their exes Facebook status and felt devastated to learn their now ex had changed their status from “in a relationship” to “single”. It has been known this simple act can throw a person into a complete and emotional tailspin.
This raises the question, what relationship break up advice can you give a person whose relationship breakdown can be viewed by at least 350 people?
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With the huge growth in social media sites used by millions, it must be a shock to find your break up has been commented on by your ex for all to see.
The only advice I can give is, don’t get involved with stirring up an online fight or negative comments. Also contact your ex and ask them to remove any unhelpful comments they have made because you will not be drawn into retaliating.
I do know someone who was badly affected by a vitual character assassination by their ex on Facebook, it affected them for a very long time.