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Relationship Break Up Advice Blog: There are 50 ways to leave your lover – Including online…Part two
As mentioned in part 1, people are connected and linked by so many strings that severing one tie won’t necessarily end the relationship, as there are so many ties connected.
When you make the decision to end a relationship in cyberspace you’re not ending it with the person concerned, you’re also ending the relationship with their network of friends and acquaintances.
In the past when a relationship was over, you could easily cut your former lover from your life [and from your photos]. Unfortunately, with the digital age those same happy and smiling photos are freely available on Facebook – making them not so easy to erase.
The sneaky thing about breaking up online is that those twitter tweets, that Facebook status and regular face book feeds have a way of further aggravating the situation as they find their way back to an upset ex via your social media acquaintances. Breakups are a painful drawn out process face-to-face, but its even worse having your break up dissected and watched out of pure curiosity in a digital goldfish bowl.
If you’re experiencing the end of a relationship, a great piece of relationship break up advice is to change any shared passwords you may have with your ex partner, also stop posting on any social networking sites.
If possible, block your ex partner from having any contact with you. Additionally, change your e-mail address or if that is not possible change your social media accounts to a more private status, which only a select few can have access to.
Still in some extreme cases, changing your status may not be enough, and individuals are taking relationship break up advice which is infinitely more extreme in order to rid themselves of an ex-partner …
Relationship break up Advice Blog: There are 50 ways to leave your lover – Including online…Part one
As the old song goes “There are 50 ways to leave your lover”, and with the advancements in technology that list grows a little bit longer. Your lover can dump you by voicemail; your lover can dump you via text message and now your lover will dump or cheat on you via a multitude of social media sites.
Today, there is a new relationship world order which includes the social media age. In the past we’d contact friends and our relatives or see them face-to-face, at parties or at family gatherings.
However, our friends and our lovers’ photos, e-mails and comments are available to us 24 hours a day via Facebook – which creates a virtual but all too real new reality.
So, that guy or girl you got together with briefly or had a long-term relationship that didn’t work out will create a whole new thorny issue for you if you’re still connected via a social media site. As your relationship demise can be easily announced for the whole world to see via Twitter, Facebook or Bebo.
Let’s face it, who hasn’t logged into their computer to check their exes Facebook status and felt devastated to learn their now ex had changed their status from “in a relationship” to “single”. It has been known this simple act can throw a person into a complete and emotional tailspin.
This raises the question, what relationship break up advice can you give a person whose relationship breakdown can be viewed by at least 350 people?